Designing a healing funeral

Create a meaningful ceremony that celebrates a life, mourns a death, and helps you find peace.

A funeral can be hollow, awkward, and out-of-touch with the needs and values of the deceased person and their family. 

If you design a funeral well, it can also be a heartfelt, moving, and deeply transformative gathering, one that brings healing to the living and the dead.

Dr. Sarah Kerr, PhD
Death Doula, and Founder of The Centre for Sacred Deathcare

Step onto
your path

Move forward as an inspired guide, helping your family and friends to meet loss in a healing way.

Learn in community

Hear from others who share the calling to support dying people and their families.

Gain practical skills

Use logistical and spiritual best practices to create a meaningful, heart-opening, community ceremony.

Apply a soul-based framework

Understand funerals as transformative healing rituals that validate grief and facilitate healing.

Serve the living and the dead

Create a ceremony that comforts the living and helps the dead person get where they need to go.

Step onto your path

Move forward as an inspired guide, helping your family and friends to meet loss in a healing way.

Learn in community

Hear from others who share the calling to support dying people and their families.

Gain practical skills

Use logistical and spiritual best practices to create a meaningful, heart-opening, community ceremony.

Apply a soul-based framework

Understand funerals as transformative healing rituals that validate grief and facilitate healing.

Serve the living and the dead

Create a ceremony that comforts the living and helps the dead person get where they need to go.

Wisdom and practical skill-building

Sarah’s class was an amazing experience, containing tremendous depth and breadth of wisdom and practical skill-building. Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us!”

– Maxine S.

Hold space for love and grief

• Help participants be present with pain and heartbreak
•  Welcome beauty, celebration, laughter and delight
• Strengthen the bonds of love and connection for everyone involved

Hold space for love and grief

• Help participants be present with pain and heartbreak
•  Welcome beauty, celebration, laughter and delight
• Strengthen the bonds of love and connection for everyone involved

Organize a beautiful and meaningful ceremony

• Understand core ritual principles and how to apply them
• Adapt a best practices ceremony template to your own needs and values
• Feel grounded and confident, even if you’ve never planned a funeral before

Organize a beautiful and meaningful ceremony

• Understand core ritual principles and how to apply them
• Adapt a best practices ceremony template to your own needs and values
• Feel grounded and confident, even if you’ve never planned a funeral before

Develop skills to meet death in a soul-based way

• Launch the deceased on their voyage to the next realm
• Support the living as they begin a new life with their loved one gone
• Offer a chance for reflection, mourning, and meaning-making

Develop skills to meet death in a soul-based way

• Launch the deceased on their voyage to the next realm
• Support the living as they begin a new life with their loved one gone
• Offer a chance for reflection, mourning, and meaning-making

Support dying people and families

• Develop and apply your unique healing gifts to support others 
• Validate your intuitive understanding about the soul-journey of death and loss
• Play your part in the movement to build a more death-positive culture

Support dying people and families

• Develop and apply your unique healing gifts to support others 
• Validate your intuitive understanding about the soul-journey of death and loss
• Play your part in the movement to build a more death-positive culture

Amazing, positive, specific, detailed, practical information 

This class felt like a cornucopia, just overflowing with amazing, positive, specific, detailed, practical information. It answered all the questions I had, and even ones I didn’t have. It was excellent, and Sarah is a wonderful teacher.

– Julie S.

ABOUT YOUR INSTRUCTOR

Dr. Sarah Kerr, PhD

Sarah is a Death Doula, ritual healing practitioner, and sacred deathcare educator.

With a PhD in Transformative Learning, and a focus on ritual and rites of passage, Sarah’s approach blends the spiritual with the pragmatic. Sarah has more than two decades of hands-on training in spiritual and shamanic healing practices, and she offers a clear roadmap for students and clients who are called to meet death and loss in a soul-based way.

As a Death Doula, Sarah serves as “clergy for the unchurched,” bringing inclusive and nature-based spiritual values to her work. With a strong community-focused approach, Sarah helps her clients meet mortality in a conscious and open-hearted way.

As an experienced teacher and trainer, Sarah has helped thousands of students validate their intuitive knowing that death is a soul-journey, not just a physical experience. Sarah’s courses give students the understanding, tools, and confidence they need to support dying people and their families.

In addition to creating the Centre for Sacred Deathcare’s library of virtual classes, Sarah lectures and teaches internationally. Her deathly advice column, “Dear Sarah,” appears in print publications in Idaho and Montana. Sarah’s work has been featured in Maclean’s and Zoomer Magazine, and on CBC Radio’s The Current, Global, and CTV National News.

ABOUT YOUR INSTRUCTOR

Dr. Sarah Kerr, PhD

Sarah is a Death Doula, ritual healing practitioner, and sacred deathcare educator.

With a PhD in Transformative Learning, and a focus on ritual and rites of passage, Sarah’s approach blends the spiritual with the pragmatic. Sarah has more than two decades of hands-on training in spiritual and shamanic healing practices, and she offers a clear roadmap for students and clients who are called to meet death and loss in a soul-based way.

As a Death Doula, Sarah serves as “clergy for the unchurched,” bringing inclusive and nature-based spiritual values to her work. With a strong community-focused approach, Sarah helps her clients meet mortality in a conscious and open-hearted way.

As an experienced teacher and trainer, Sarah has helped thousands of students validate their intuitive knowing that death is a soul-journey, not just a physical experience. Sarah’s courses give students the understanding, tools, and confidence they need to support dying people and their families.

In addition to creating the Centre for Sacred Deathcare’s library of virtual classes, Sarah lectures and teaches internationally. Her deathly advice column, “Dear Sarah,” appears in print publications in Idaho and Montana. Sarah’s work has been featured in Maclean’s and Zoomer Magazine, and on CBC Radio’s The Current, Global, and CTV National News.

Course Content


Course Content


The Principles of a
Healing Funeral

  • The deeper purposes of a funeral
  • A good funeral as a village-making event
  • Finding healing for the living and the dead
  • The transformative structure of ritual space
  • Funerals as rites of passage and initiation
  • How funerals differ from celebrations of life
  • The meaning-making function of funerals
  • A trauma-aware approach to community healing


When you understand the spiritual and energetic dynamics that shape a good funeral, you’ll have the confidence to design your own ceremony.

Practices for Designing
a Healing Funeral

  • Advanced planning and scheduling
  • Working with a funeral home
  • Choosing an officiant
  • Developing the order of service
  • Creating a strong ritual container
  • Obituaries, eulogies, tributes and epitaphs
  • The soul-significance of body disposition
  • Viewing, cremation and ash-scattering rituals


If every logistical decision is designed to support the emotional and spiritual needs of the participants, the ceremony will be grounded, accessible, and effective.  

The Principles of a
Healing Funeral

  • The deeper purposes of a funeral
  • A good funeral as a village-making event
  • Finding healing for the living and the dead
  • The transformative structure of ritual space
  • Funerals as rites of passage and initiation
  • How funerals differ from celebrations of life
  • The meaning-making function of funerals
  • A trauma-aware approach to community healing


When you understand the spiritual and energetic dynamics that shape a good funeral, you’ll have the confidence to design your own ceremony.

Practices for Designing
a Healing Funeral

  • Advanced planning and scheduling
  • Working with a funeral home
  • Choosing an officiant
  • Developing the order of service
  • Creating a strong ritual container
  • Obituaries, eulogies, tributes and epitaphs
  • The soul-significance of body disposition
  • Viewing, cremation and ash-scattering rituals


If every logistical decision is designed to support the emotional and spiritual needs of the participants, the ceremony will be grounded, accessible, and effective.  

All Registrants Will Receive:


  • Lifetime access to the Sacred Deathcare Learning Portal
  • Course videos, with closed captioning
  • Audio-only recordings
  • A printable course outline and note-taking template
  • Transcripts of course content
  • A personalized Certificate of Completion, suitable for CEU’s

All Registrants Will Receive


  • A printable course outline and note-taking template
  • Transcripts of course content
  • A personalized Certificate of Completion, suitable for CEU’s
  • Lifetime access to the Sacred Deathcare Learning Portal
  • Course videos, with closed captioning
  • Audio-only recordings

Learn to Bring Healing to Death

The course includes 2.5 hours of lecture and Q&A, filled with practical information, stories and examples of lived rituals.

You’ll learn sacred deathcare practices for meeting an upcoming death in a meaningful and conscious way.

$129 USD

All material is available as closed caption videos.

Participants will receive a Certificate of Completion, suitable for submission for CE’s or CEU’s (licensure dependent.)

Financial assistance is available. If the price is a barrier, please get in touch.

Learn to Bring Healing to Death

The course includes 2.5 hours of lecture and Q&A, filled with practical information, stories and examples of lived rituals.

You’ll learn sacred deathcare practices for meeting an upcoming death in a meaningful and conscious way.

$129 USD

All material is available as closed caption videos.

Participants will receive a Certificate of Completion, suitable for submission for CE’s or CEU’s (licensure dependent.)

Financial assistance is available. If the price is a barrier, please get in touch.

Join more than 3000 students who have studied with Sarah


I am excited to connect with like-minded people

Sarah’s desire to build community is evident, and I am excited to connect with other like-minded people through her offerings.

-Brenda K

I feel a kinship, feel supported

“We are going through a teetering on the end death experience with my dad and I am the outlier in the family. I am thankful for the training I have, related to death and finding comfort in it and in ritual. Many times I feel alone in this process. But every time I get your newsletter, I feel a kinship, feel supported, and feel like I will be okay.”

-Sarah D

A community of people with the calling

Thank you for creating and presenting this material so well and beginning to develop a community of people with like callings.

-Bridget P

Connecting the spiritual with the pragmatic

I felt like I walked into an entirely different world today. I come from a rational, concrete, pragmatic world, and I have always had a feeling for—and a yearning for—the spiritual world but have never really gone there. I’ve always stayed very practical, very pragmatic. This was absolutely wonderful.

Thank you so much.

-Ellen K

Validated many profound experiences

Validated many profound and inexplicable experiences…A great foundation and roadmap for learning.

-Tana P

A groundwork for learning

Sarah took care to lay the groundwork for learning, and made it easy to ask questions. I appreciate her sincerity and her desire to share her knowledge, in a way that makes the world a better place for all, including the creatures and the planet that sustains us...

-Margaret V

I am excited to connect with like-minded people

Sarah’s desire to build community is evident, and I am excited to connect with other like-minded people through her offerings.

-Brenda K

I feel a kinship, feel supported

“We are going through a teetering on the end death experience with my dad and I am the outlier in the family. I am thankful for the training I have, related to death and finding comfort in it and in ritual. Many times I feel alone in this process. But every time I get your newsletter, I feel a kinship, feel supported, and feel like I will be okay.”

-Sarah D

A community of people with the calling

Thank you for creating and presenting this material so well and beginning to develop a community of people with like callings.

-Bridget P

Connecting the spiritual with the pragmatic

I felt like I walked into an entirely different world today. I come from a rational, concrete, pragmatic world, and I have always had a feeling for—and a yearning for—the spiritual world but have never really gone there. I’ve always stayed very practical, very pragmatic. This was absolutely wonderful.

Thank you so much.

-Ellen K

Validated many profound experiences

Validated many profound and inexplicable experiences…A great foundation and roadmap for learning.

-Tana P

A groundwork for learning

Sarah took care to lay the groundwork for learning, and made it easy to ask questions. I appreciate her sincerity and her desire to share her knowledge, in a way that makes the world a better place for all, including the creatures and the planet that sustains us...

-Margaret V

Frequently Asked Questions

Is this course for me?
What is a soul-based approach to death and loss?
How does this course fit with other Sacred Deathcare courses?

Designing a Healing Funeral is the fourth course in Doing Death Better, a five-course series on practical skills for meeting death in a conscious, meaningful way.

The content of the five courses flows from one to the next, but each course stands alone, and they may be taken in any order.

What accessibility accommodations are included?

All of our video lessons include closed captioning, both during the live Zoom call, and when they’re uploaded to the course portal.

After the live class, we generate a transcript (unedited), which is uploaded to the course portal, along with the videos, and an audio-only version of the class.

If you need other accessibility support, please reach out. We’d love to know what would make things easier for you.

Will I be certified?

As there are no assignments or evaluation involved in this course, this is not a certification program, and participating does not directly certify you in any way.

All participants will, however,  receive a Certificate of Completion, which may be submitted for Continuing Education Units (depending on your licensure.)

Is there financial assistance available?

The Centre for Sacred Deathcare is committed to equitable access to our programs. If financial issues would prevent you from taking the course, please reach out.

What is the refund policy?

If you registered for a course that’s not right for you, or if the course content didn’t deliver what you were expecting, let us know. We’ll happily issue a full refund.

We’re always working to improve the course content and delivery, and appreciate any feedback you can offer about what didn’t work for you.

What if I have questions that aren’t answered here?

We want to help you have the best learning experience possible. If you have any further questions about the course, please get in touch and we’d be happy to help.

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