Thank you for everything. I honor your existence. I am a death doula and I am working with a woman in palliative care for a final stage cancer. She is taking palliative chemotherapy and is doing better, she has made her care planning and death planning but as day go by she physically she is getting weaker but mentally stronger, she doesn’t like to talk about death right now or what she wanted to do with this time about getting all ready, she stopped and now she is only focused on her “recovery the health treatment”. I want to be by her side the way she needs me and wants me to be without being intrusive or disrespectful to her hope and feelings. Her sister who is the care giver is exhausted and she has been telling her double messages, on one side that is okey to keep on going and on the other, “look at you, you are dying”. Thank you so much for your time and help. I would like to be affective and effective to both of them.