My father passed this past January, my dear husband died last month and yesterday my mom enrolled in hospice. I am feeling numb and confused because I am not connecting to her fear and almost feel distant as she has said some angry things about my father since he died. When I visited her last week for the first time since my husband passed she never mentioned his name once. (I live in another state) I imagine this disconnection is somewhat due to her ignoring my own grief
How can I work on this?